Relationships do not just happen. At first, we build them. Then we need to maintain them for as long as we claim that we are within such a relationship. True friends are a treasure.
Sometimes we need to let them go especially when we realized that friendship is no longer. Same we do with all relationships in life. One said that there are people in our life for life and others for a season. And this is ok! Regarding our families, we need to remind ourselves that genes do not make the family as they do not make the relationships but relationships make a family. A good friend of mine says “we have families by choice, not necessarily by blood.”
I am sure that you understand what I mean and you have experienced such trembles.
There is an expression in Greek: “eyes do not see each other, they forget each other”! Very true. There are times that we fell short with a friend or circumstances might keep us away. Unexpectedly, we meet each other. It is the moment when we realize whether we fell truly apart – when there is a neutral emotion – or we feel as no time or conflict ever took place. All these facts are human. It is what makes us humans. We ought to remember so.
Garfield, the cat, said something amazing: “I am not mad at you, I’m just not dealing with you and your drama anymore.” Remember that we have those “drama” relationships somewhere on the way of life! (I love Garfield…a so wise cat!) My recommendation? Move out rapidly as they just absorb your energy and the possibilities to do something creative for the Lord, for yourself, for others.
“After this the Lord appointed seventy-two others and sent them two by two ahead of him to every town and place where he was about to go.”
Today it is a beautiful day to think our mates, pray for them and ask the Lord to continue bringing in our lives the ones with whom we can become OUR BETTER SELF for the Lord’s sake.
I strongly believe that whoever brings up our best self – we do the same for them – those mates are the ones to go on for life. In the meantime, we encounter many others, those who are for a season. Within that season we mature more in knowledge of relationships, we understand more human nature, we appreciate better what is the best. There is no waste of time, no waste of relationships, all is about recycling!
The Lord in His indefinite wisdom knew all the pros and cons of relations. He knew the power of friendship, the power of co-operating and the strength of being two-two! We have many examples in the Bible of relationships, the ones which were successful, the ones that were for a season, the ones which remained strong till the end. Nevertheless, He kept putting people together to work for His kingdom and for fellowship.
Friends, mates, spouses, acquaintances, co-workers are important as the Ecclesiastes says:
“Two are better than one,
Because they have a good reward for their labour.
For if they fall, one will lift up his companion.
But woe to him who is alone when he falls,
For he has no one to help him up.
Again, if two lie down together, they will keep warm;
But how can one be warm alone?
Though one may be overpowered by another, two can withstand him.
And a threefold cord is not quickly broken.”
Our Father God, we come to you today and we thank you for this new day, a day that we have the opportunity to do something new; to do something for our friend, spouse, child, neighbour and stranger. Help us Lord, today, to become better, one step at the time. We need your strength and we pray that all is done for your glory, in Jesus Name, amen!